, and both of you are putting on the chocolate-based pounds.

Stupid, isn’t it? So phone her. Not “just to say “hi!”, not because you need some help with a problem, not to pretend etc, etc. Just phone her with a specific, creative reason for you to get together, at a specific time, on a specific day. If there’s a problem with the time, either you can make

So she hasn't called yet? She probably won't. And you don't understand why, because you always keep your word, you always make every phone call when you say you will, and you are so reliable it's almost embarrassing. OK, so maybe that last bit isn't always 100% you, however good your intentions are. But, she still hasn't called, and it's not because she's unreliable, hates flirting (no chance!), or is a couch potato. Most likely it’s because she "knows" the rules of the game, and you don't.

Game? Oh yes. Maybe she really is sitting by the phone, waiting for it to ring, even turning down the possibility of other dates. But, the rules say that the man is the hunter, so he calls first. Even if you exchanged phone numbers, she gave you hers for a reason - she's interested in you.

Maybe it seems strange to you that she doesn’t call, “just to say hi!”, to pretend that she needs an answer to a question that’s been bothering her and she’s sure you know the answer, or to pretend that she dialled your number by mistake before starting some gentle flirting. That would be fine by you, so why doesn’t she do it?

Equally maybe, she’s waiting for romance, love and a relationship with you, but instead she spends her evenings watching one soap opera after another - because you haven’t called. Meanwhile, you’re hesitating to call because you’re afraid she’ll turn you down, then you’ll feel terrible, and both of you are putting on the chocolate-based pounds.

Stupid, isn’t it? So phone her. Not “just to say “hi!”, not because you need some help with a problem, not to pretend etc, etc. Just phone her with a specific, creative reason for you to get together, at a specific time, on a specific day. If there’s a problem with the time, either you can make

ot because she's unreliable, hates flirting (no chance!), or is a couch potato. Most likely it’s because she "knows" the rules of the game, and you don't.

Game? Oh yes. Maybe she really is sitting by the phone, waiting for it to ring, even turning down the possibility of other dates. But, the rules say that the man is the hunter, so he calls first. Even if you exchanged phone numbers, she gave you hers for a reason - she's interested in you.

Maybe it seems strange to you that she doesn’t call, “just to say hi!”, to pretend that she needs an answer to a question that’s been bothering her and she’s sure you know the answer, or to pretend that she dialled your number by mistake before starting some gentle flirting. That would be fine by you, so why doesn’t she do it?

Equally maybe, she’s waiting for romance, love and a relationship with you, but instead she spends her evenings watching one soap opera after another - because you haven’t called. Meanwhile, you’re hesitating to call because you’re afraid she’ll turn you down, then you’ll feel terrible, and both of you are putting on the chocolate-based pounds.

Stupid, isn’t it? So phone her. Not “just to say “hi!”, not because you need some help with a problem, not to pretend etc, etc. Just phone her with a specific, creative reason for you to get together, at a specific time, on a specific day. If there’s a problem with the time, either you can make

if you exchanged phone numbers, she gave you hers for a reason - she's interested in you.

Maybe it seems strange to you that she doesn’t call, “just to say hi!”, to pretend that she needs an answer to a question that’s been bothering her and she’s sure you know the answer, or to pretend that she dialled your number by mistake before starting some gentle flirting. That would be fine by you, so why doesn’t she do it?

Equally maybe, she’s waiting for romance, love and a relationship with you, but instead she spends her evenings watching one soap opera after another - because you haven’t called. Meanwhile, you’re hesitating to call because you’re afraid she’ll turn you down, then you’ll feel terrible, and both of you are putting on the chocolate-based pounds.

Stupid, isn’t it? So phone her. Not “just to say “hi!”, not because you need some help with a problem, not to pretend etc, etc. Just phone her with a specific, creative reason for you to get together, at a specific time, on a specific day. If there’s a problem with the time, either you can make

flirting. That would be fine by you, so why doesn’t she do it?

Equally maybe, she’s waiting for romance, love and a relationship with you, but instead she spends her evenings watching one soap opera after another - because you haven’t called. Meanwhile, you’re hesitating to call because you’re afraid she’ll turn you down, then you’ll feel terrible, and both of you are putting on the chocolate-based pounds.

Stupid, isn’t it? So phone her. Not “just to say “hi!”, not because you need some help with a problem, not to pretend etc, etc. Just phone her with a specific, creative reason for you to get together, at a specific time, on a specific day. If there’s a problem with the time, either you can make

, and both of you are putting on the chocolate-based pounds.

Stupid, isn’t it? So phone her. Not “just to say “hi!”, not because you need some help with a problem, not to pretend etc, etc. Just phone her with a specific, creative reason for you to get together, at a specific time, on a specific day. If there’s a problem with the time, either you can make an alternative suggestion or she’ll make a suggestion of her own – the rules of the game say she is allowed to do that.