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Why Gap Insurance Has Saved The Lives Of Many Car Owners hytes and you “SEE”Gap insurance may sound new to most car owners but it is an absolute must for anybody who has financed the purchase of their vehicle.As the name suggests, this is an insurance policy that fills the gap your car insurance leaves when tragedy strikes too soon. Here is a typical example. You obtain financing to purchase a brand new car but two months down the road your car is completely destroyed in an accident or a huge tree falls on it and just flattens it. The insurance company decides that at the time of the accident, the vehicle was worth 20 per cent less its' purchase price. However the finance company still wants you to pay back the cash you borrowed to purchase the car in full. And since you have only made two payments so far, when you add taxes and interest, you still owe the finance company more money that the value of the car when it was brand new? So how do you make up the difference in cash that can be quite substantial? The answer is gap insurance.In fact gap insurance is extremely important for most drivers because the truth is that if something serious happens to your car in the first year or so of purchase, you will end up with a big difference to settle with your financier. This is the reason why gap insurance is a must in most lease contracts. In some cases lease contracts may include a gap waiver, which means that you are protected from gap charges and you do not require gap insurance.Even with gap insurance you need to be careful to follow the instructions issued by the car insurance company. For instance many times, if your car is completely destroyed, some insurance firms insist that you continue to make loan payments for your shell of a car until money from the gap insurance is paid out. If you grow your business faster than the golden mean, this is called excess in nature and it will cause a decline into deficiency later. If you paint a painting, build a building – or do a book cover and the proportions are in deficiency of the golden mean, you will cause the word “ugly” – a repelling force. That is why your hair cut and style can affect your beauty so much. It changes the proportions of your face. There is a sacred geometry that is also, like all the universe, humble to the ratio of the golden mean. (Pythagoras is one of my great teachers. This golden mean is his life study and the way he constructed and understood the entire universe, including sacred music) Your heart opens with the proportions of the golden mean. Some people automatically understand this and others are always “designing” things. The great artists and designers are actually mathematicians, they use their eye, rather than a calculator, but ratios, symmetries, proportions and the order of perfection are their measure. More profound is to see a family in a home playing this dynamic. If Dad over works, excess, one child will become lazy. If mum over works, another child will become lazy. Excess causes deficiency. If Dad is in the wrong job, one of the children will become devoted to a cause. If one parent is over at An Overview of Online Training Technologies Excess and deficiencyWith only twenty four hours in the day, it is almost impossible to get everything done. We have all been in a situation – whether it is in school or a work environment, when we pray for even just an extra minute of time. After all, with such demanding schedules, even a few more seconds would allow us to actually have a life after work. Luckily, since the internet boom, there have been many alternatives which will help us manage our time better.Online training is now essentially part of every company. It not only makes it easier to learn and comprehend, but it is more affordable for both the business and the staff member. For instance, if a company were to hire a trainer for new employees, they would have to create an entire budget for another salary. However, if they use e-training, it is much more reasonably priced and they do not have to take out a loan just to cover a few more paychecks. It is also great because with an online computer trainer, employees can access the lessons at any time. Unfortunately, humans only work seven or eight hours a day, leaving a lot of scheduling conflicts and headaches. By having online computer training, employees will be able to focus in a quiet setting and study on their own time. With such modern technology, the employee will come away with a better understanding of what they need to accomplish. One could compare e-training to an SAT’s practice assignment, because many of these programs allow you to chart your progress. By listening to speakers and answering questions on this program, it will be much easier to see if you understand the concepts.Surprisingly, online training courses also generate more revenue for the company. This is due to the fact that e-training is now providing courses that teach customers about a specific product. The training will also compare other products and therefore may do a better job convincing the customer to spend money. E-learning also allows a company to set up marketing tutorials and different training techniques for sales teams to use. By educating the staff with the same material, employees will be more experienced and thus can work together.Nevertheless, online training does n Q: What does the word "benign" mean? Throw away every theory. Cast all your knowledge to the wind. Abandon your religion, your intellect and your ego. Fall into truth in just two simple words, excess and deficiency. Too much and too little. The whole universe is divided into these two. Too much and too little. When there is too much, some is taken. When there is too little, some is returned. This is the ebb and flow of life, the universe, and the way it turns. When we perceive we have too little, we reach out for it. When we perceive we have too much we push it away. Ahhh, we are forever in the ebb and flow, excess of this, deficiency of that. Too much – too little. Too much aggression, not enough peace. Too much global warming, not enough environmental awareness. Too much time single, not enough romance. Too much giving not enough getting. Too much work not enough home. Too much greed not enough kindness. Too much hard work not enough play. Too much food not enough exercise. All this adds to a zero sum game because nobody really gets the truth/ For every excess there is always a corresponding deficiency. So, too much aggression has associated with it, too much peace. Too much global warming has associated with it too much global cooling. Too much time single has associated with it too much time spent with others. Etc You don’t have to do a thing. The person who can’t trust, takes control. They emotionalize. They become reactive because they lost their trust in nature, or God or people. This person wants to fix things because they see excess or deficiency. Too much – too little. We are gross like this. Not subtle. We are not subtle because we emotionalize. This is the cause of all disease. Excess and deficiency. The body gets too much of one thing and not enough of another. This is all eastern healing summarized. Excess and deficiency – In Tibetan healing – excess wind, excess fire these and others are the cause of ill health. In ayurvedic (India) medicine, excess and deficiency are at the heart of all healing. If you have long term body pain, it is because one muscle pulled one way and another muscle pulled another for too long. There was an excess strength in one muscle and a deficiency in another. Emotion even goes into muscle tissue and causes bone and joint problems. That’s why yoga balances the body, pushing on pulled muscle, pulling on pushed muscle. Giving the body a balance between excess and deficiency. In a business if there is a culture change program it is likely to create some values that the company wants. This is called excess because those values, like religious values, push good behavior up, and bad behavior down. Then there is an excess of say “time management” and a deficiency of say “creative innovation” In nature, where I rest in the arms of love, there is excess and deficiency also. The river would not flow to the sea if there were not an excess of pressure at one end, seeking to balance (the deficiency) at the other. In contrast to what people think, nature never finds balance. No, she is always seeking balance, but if nature found balance, we’d all be dead. It is the search for balance, moving the excess to balance, moving the deficiency to balance that causes life. Without this there would be no wind, no movement in the ocean to feed the fish, no shaking of the leaves. So, nature never, ever finds balance, simply she is seeking it, over compensating and seeking it again. In our society, like America for example, we can see trends and fashions and cultural norms going into excess and being balanced by deficiency elsewhere. To the politician it’s a local issue, to the student of the laws of nature, it’s always far bigger than that. My students look and they see that there is a solution to every problem and circumstance, and it is achieved, not by change, but by gaining a bigger perspective. Rising above the emotion. If America is in excess, eating burgers, coke, drugs, making squllions, and I am not criticizing this, there will be a place, automatically on earth in deficiency. So, maybe Africa. What you can know is nature is always seeking balance. So, you can say the world trade center was not about Moslem terrorism, but more about the balancing of excess and deficiency. Excess is never measured in quantity. A person with one billion dollars is not in excess unless they are not humble to their gift. We must recognize our own power and be thankful for it, in order not to cause a compensation in our own lives. For example; if a person was given more love than they felt worthy of, then they would be in excess, and someone else would be in deficiency and a compensation would take place. There is a mathematical formulae which reveals the deeper meaning of this equation of excess and deficiency. It is called the “Golden mean” you can google this and you will discover the most potent insight. They have separated the golden mean, from the golden number and the golden section. This shows you how over specialization leads to extinction. The philosopher, the mathematician and the student of art see their “Golden ratio” as unique. You are a student of the laws of nature. You rise up from this fragmented teaching in an encyclopedia written by neophytes and you “SEE” If you grow your business faster than the golden mean, this is called excess in nature and it will cause a decline into deficiency later. If you paint a painting, build a building – or do a book cover and the proportions are in deficiency of the golden mean, you will cause the word “ugly” – a repelling force. That is why your hair cut and style can affect your beauty so much. It changes the proportions of your face. There is a sacred geometry that is also, like all the universe, humble to the ratio of the golden mean. (Pythagoras is one of my great teachers. This golden mean is his life study and the way he constructed and understood the entire universe, including sacred music) Your heart opens with the proportions of the golden mean. Some people automatically understand this and others are always “designing” things. The great artists and designers are actually mathematicians, they use their eye, rather than a calculator, but ratios, symmetries, proportions and the order of perfection are their measure. More profound is to see a family in a home playing this dynamic. If Dad over works, excess, one child will become lazy. If mum over works, another child will become lazy. Excess causes deficiency. If Dad is in the wrong job, one of the children will become devoted to a cause. If one parent is over at Affiliate Marketing Success Secrets Revealed lobal cooling. Too much time single has associated with it too much time spent with others. Etc You don’t have to do a thing.In affiliate marketing, you start selling other people's products online. Every product owner will pay its affiliates a part of the transaction which can amount to anything upto 75% of the cost of the product. Most of the affiliates with the right tools and knowledge can earn anything up to ten thousand dollars every month from affiliate programs. But a majority of the affiliates fail miserably in their affiliate efforts or earn insignificant amount of money. Here are some of the Secrets of Success in affiliate marketing:Secret #1: Treat Affidavit Marketing as a BusinessThis way, you will be able to give more due and attention to your campaigns. Market an affiliate product as if it were your own. Build a business around it, pre-sell the product by having a pitch page of your own, offer free stuff, follow up and have backend offers to maximize profits from every product you promote. Following this cycle is the Formula of Success in Affiliate Marketing.Secret #2: Promote Quality Information Products People are hungry for information. Every day, millions of people are searching online for information. If you really want to make money fast, then I highly recommend that you start selling information products. These products are available for immediate download, have high profit margins and affiliates earn high commissions. If you want to search for information products, visit Clickbank.com, open an account and enter ClickBank Marketplace.Secret #3: Pick up the right productsChoose products that pay about 50% of the sales. Also look for % referred for the product. Anything above 50% is a reasonably good figure. You can search Top 10 products by category i.e. popularity, gravity, $ earned/sale, % earned/sale and % referred.It may work out that you have chosen a product, but there is very high competition for that product which may force you to pay a very high CPC price. You can chose products for which there is less competition but you still have good chances of making good The person who can’t trust, takes control. They emotionalize. They become reactive because they lost their trust in nature, or God or people. This person wants to fix things because they see excess or deficiency. Too much – too little. We are gross like this. Not subtle. We are not subtle because we emotionalize. This is the cause of all disease. Excess and deficiency. The body gets too much of one thing and not enough of another. This is all eastern healing summarized. Excess and deficiency – In Tibetan healing – excess wind, excess fire these and others are the cause of ill health. In ayurvedic (India) medicine, excess and deficiency are at the heart of all healing. If you have long term body pain, it is because one muscle pulled one way and another muscle pulled another for too long. There was an excess strength in one muscle and a deficiency in another. Emotion even goes into muscle tissue and causes bone and joint problems. That’s why yoga balances the body, pushing on pulled muscle, pulling on pushed muscle. Giving the body a balance between excess and deficiency. In a business if there is a culture change program it is likely to create some values that the company wants. This is called excess because those values, like religious values, push good behavior up, and bad behavior down. Then there is an excess of say “time management” and a deficiency of say “creative innovation” In nature, where I rest in the arms of love, there is excess and deficiency also. The river would not flow to the sea if there were not an excess of pressure at one end, seeking to balance (the deficiency) at the other. In contrast to what people think, nature never finds balance. No, she is always seeking balance, but if nature found balance, we’d all be dead. It is the search for balance, moving the excess to balance, moving the deficiency to balance that causes life. Without this there would be no wind, no movement in the ocean to feed the fish, no shaking of the leaves. So, nature never, ever finds balance, simply she is seeking it, over compensating and seeking it again. In our society, like America for example, we can see trends and fashions and cultural norms going into excess and being balanced by deficiency elsewhere. To the politician it’s a local issue, to the student of the laws of nature, it’s always far bigger than that. My students look and they see that there is a solution to every problem and circumstance, and it is achieved, not by change, but by gaining a bigger perspective. Rising above the emotion. If America is in excess, eating burgers, coke, drugs, making squllions, and I am not criticizing this, there will be a place, automatically on earth in deficiency. So, maybe Africa. What you can know is nature is always seeking balance. So, you can say the world trade center was not about Moslem terrorism, but more about the balancing of excess and deficiency. Excess is never measured in quantity. A person with one billion dollars is not in excess unless they are not humble to their gift. We must recognize our own power and be thankful for it, in order not to cause a compensation in our own lives. For example; if a person was given more love than they felt worthy of, then they would be in excess, and someone else would be in deficiency and a compensation would take place. There is a mathematical formulae which reveals the deeper meaning of this equation of excess and deficiency. It is called the “Golden mean” you can google this and you will discover the most potent insight. They have separated the golden mean, from the golden number and the golden section. This shows you how over specialization leads to extinction. The philosopher, the mathematician and the student of art see their “Golden ratio” as unique. You are a student of the laws of nature. You rise up from this fragmented teaching in an encyclopedia written by neophytes and you “SEE” If you grow your business faster than the golden mean, this is called excess in nature and it will cause a decline into deficiency later. If you paint a painting, build a building – or do a book cover and the proportions are in deficiency of the golden mean, you will cause the word “ugly” – a repelling force. That is why your hair cut and style can affect your beauty so much. It changes the proportions of your face. There is a sacred geometry that is also, like all the universe, humble to the ratio of the golden mean. (Pythagoras is one of my great teachers. This golden mean is his life study and the way he constructed and understood the entire universe, including sacred music) Your heart opens with the proportions of the golden mean. Some people automatically understand this and others are always “designing” things. The great artists and designers are actually mathematicians, they use their eye, rather than a calculator, but ratios, symmetries, proportions and the order of perfection are their measure. More profound is to see a family in a home playing this dynamic. If Dad over works, excess, one child will become lazy. If mum over works, another child will become lazy. Excess causes deficiency. If Dad is in the wrong job, one of the children will become devoted to a cause. If one parent is over at Understanding And Diagnosing Autism led excess because those values, like religious values, push good behavior up, and bad behavior down. Then there is an excess of say “time management” and a deficiency of say “creative innovation”It has been said that autism is probably one of the most misunderstood ailments today. What makes it hard to categorize is the fact that there are many different degrees of autism. Some degrees of it are barely noticeable, which then becomes a big question mark as to whether a particular person is really afflicted with autism. On the other hand, some cases of it are severe enough to where the afflicted person cannot function in normal life on their own.Autism does not indicate a lack of intelligence necessarily. Consider for example the movie "Rain Man" where Dustin Hoffman did an excellent job as he played the role of the autistic brother, socially inept with very poor social skills outside of his brother, but proved to be a gambler's dream in the casino or anything to do with numbers. Studies have shown that a very common element for an autistic person is intense concentration on a particular topic, almost to the exclusion of all else.Autism is very similar to Asbergers Syndrome, although it is accepted that Asbergers is the milder form of autism. Like autism, Asbergers is not a physical ailment but yet it can profoundly affect the manner in which the person interacts socially and with the environment around them. In both cases, people afflicted with these ailments tend to not be able to relate to the world around them, or in many cases to even be aware of things happening around them. They are typically known to take things very literally and at face value, lacking the social skills to "read between the lines" as we all learn to do as we mature.Other symptoms of autism are a lack of imagination, or the lack of having an ability to imagine a different situation. Ideas and new concepts need to be repeated to people with autism over and over again before they can begin to grasp the idea or concept, and even then it might not sink in, depending on the severity level of the affliction.In terms of social interactions, autistic people do not seem to be able to grasp the difference in things said based on facial expressions or tone of voice. In the same vein, they are frequently unable to add more meaning In nature, where I rest in the arms of love, there is excess and deficiency also. The river would not flow to the sea if there were not an excess of pressure at one end, seeking to balance (the deficiency) at the other. In contrast to what people think, nature never finds balance. No, she is always seeking balance, but if nature found balance, we’d all be dead. It is the search for balance, moving the excess to balance, moving the deficiency to balance that causes life. Without this there would be no wind, no movement in the ocean to feed the fish, no shaking of the leaves. So, nature never, ever finds balance, simply she is seeking it, over compensating and seeking it again. In our society, like America for example, we can see trends and fashions and cultural norms going into excess and being balanced by deficiency elsewhere. To the politician it’s a local issue, to the student of the laws of nature, it’s always far bigger than that. My students look and they see that there is a solution to every problem and circumstance, and it is achieved, not by change, but by gaining a bigger perspective. Rising above the emotion. If America is in excess, eating burgers, coke, drugs, making squllions, and I am not criticizing this, there will be a place, automatically on earth in deficiency. So, maybe Africa. What you can know is nature is always seeking balance. So, you can say the world trade center was not about Moslem terrorism, but more about the balancing of excess and deficiency. Excess is never measured in quantity. A person with one billion dollars is not in excess unless they are not humble to their gift. We must recognize our own power and be thankful for it, in order not to cause a compensation in our own lives. For example; if a person was given more love than they felt worthy of, then they would be in excess, and someone else would be in deficiency and a compensation would take place. There is a mathematical formulae which reveals the deeper meaning of this equation of excess and deficiency. It is called the “Golden mean” you can google this and you will discover the most potent insight. They have separated the golden mean, from the golden number and the golden section. This shows you how over specialization leads to extinction. The philosopher, the mathematician and the student of art see their “Golden ratio” as unique. You are a student of the laws of nature. You rise up from this fragmented teaching in an encyclopedia written by neophytes and you “SEE” If you grow your business faster than the golden mean, this is called excess in nature and it will cause a decline into deficiency later. If you paint a painting, build a building – or do a book cover and the proportions are in deficiency of the golden mean, you will cause the word “ugly” – a repelling force. That is why your hair cut and style can affect your beauty so much. It changes the proportions of your face. There is a sacred geometry that is also, like all the universe, humble to the ratio of the golden mean. (Pythagoras is one of my great teachers. This golden mean is his life study and the way he constructed and understood the entire universe, including sacred music) Your heart opens with the proportions of the golden mean. Some people automatically understand this and others are always “designing” things. The great artists and designers are actually mathematicians, they use their eye, rather than a calculator, but ratios, symmetries, proportions and the order of perfection are their measure. More profound is to see a family in a home playing this dynamic. If Dad over works, excess, one child will become lazy. If mum over works, another child will become lazy. Excess causes deficiency. If Dad is in the wrong job, one of the children will become devoted to a cause. If one parent is over at Internet Marketing: The Three Knows >If America is in excess, eating burgers, coke, drugs, making squllions, and I am not criticizing this, there will be a place, automatically on earth in deficiency. So, maybe Africa. What you can know is nature is always seeking balance. So, you can say the world trade center was not about Moslem terrorism, but more about the balancing of excess and deficiency.Internet marketing is, in many ways, similar to all other forms of marketing in the past fifty years. Certainly the dynamics of the Internet make it unique, but it does provide a sense of commonality when viewed from a practical standpoint.For instance, twenty years ago brick and mortar businesses were concerned about what their competitors were doing and how to stay in the same league. This mentality is found online. When an online business works at pinpointing their competitors and discovers ways to do certain things better that business stand a better chance of succeeding. This process is part of the marketing strategies needed for successful online business.Some of the potential downfalls in Internet marketing is to assume that 1) you know what the customer wants intuitively, 2) you know the best methods of reaching these customers and 3) you don’t really need to do significant marketing to ensure the success of your online firm.The end goal of online marketing hasn’t changed, but some of the methods have. You still want customers to visit your website, but the truth is you may not always know what the customer wants, you may have to work to learn methods that can actually bring customers to your website and marketing is ESSENTIAL to your online success.Sometimes the marketing tools you use may not have a very good Return on Investment (ROI). You may think that this was a poor use of your money, but it may affect positive marketing exposure long-term. It is also possible to develop a product that may not actually sell very well, but could reduce the overall profitability of a competitor. This may sound like a strange marketing tool, but you have to remember you are not in the market alone. Understanding your competitor may be equally important to understanding your customer and how to potentially level the playing field.Contrary to popular opinion you do not have to offer the lowest product cost to find a customer base. For instance, you can visit a common discount store and find cheep hand lotion that is likely to be effective in moisturizing. However, this won’t stop customers from visiting (and spending more) for similar products Excess is never measured in quantity. A person with one billion dollars is not in excess unless they are not humble to their gift. We must recognize our own power and be thankful for it, in order not to cause a compensation in our own lives. For example; if a person was given more love than they felt worthy of, then they would be in excess, and someone else would be in deficiency and a compensation would take place. There is a mathematical formulae which reveals the deeper meaning of this equation of excess and deficiency. It is called the “Golden mean” you can google this and you will discover the most potent insight. They have separated the golden mean, from the golden number and the golden section. This shows you how over specialization leads to extinction. The philosopher, the mathematician and the student of art see their “Golden ratio” as unique. You are a student of the laws of nature. You rise up from this fragmented teaching in an encyclopedia written by neophytes and you “SEE” If you grow your business faster than the golden mean, this is called excess in nature and it will cause a decline into deficiency later. If you paint a painting, build a building – or do a book cover and the proportions are in deficiency of the golden mean, you will cause the word “ugly” – a repelling force. That is why your hair cut and style can affect your beauty so much. It changes the proportions of your face. There is a sacred geometry that is also, like all the universe, humble to the ratio of the golden mean. (Pythagoras is one of my great teachers. This golden mean is his life study and the way he constructed and understood the entire universe, including sacred music) Your heart opens with the proportions of the golden mean. Some people automatically understand this and others are always “designing” things. The great artists and designers are actually mathematicians, they use their eye, rather than a calculator, but ratios, symmetries, proportions and the order of perfection are their measure. More profound is to see a family in a home playing this dynamic. If Dad over works, excess, one child will become lazy. If mum over works, another child will become lazy. Excess causes deficiency. If Dad is in the wrong job, one of the children will become devoted to a cause. If one parent is over at Home Equity is Key for Borrowers Seeking Cash Out Loans or Refinancing Lines of Credit hytes and you “SEE”A recent survey showed that over 90% of Americans who own a home consider their equity in their primary residence as the most important financial asset. This national survey released last month, revealed that quite a few homeowners forget to use their home as a “useful financial management tool.” This indicates a gap in many US citizens in how they understand the abilities of utilizing a secure asset like a home. The study also indicates that many people may not understand the capabilities and best use of a refinancing or taking out a home equity loan as a second mortgage.The survey cited a retiring couple and asked them if it would be wise to use a 2nd mortgage or refinance loan to consolidate credit card debt. However, depending on their future plans and expected financial situation, there may be various mortgage solutions that, in fact, help them manage and achieve their changing financial goals. The home equity study was conducted in October, 2006, by Harris Interactive(R) by the request of Countrywide Home Loans, Inc.While many homeowners micro-manage their investments, many are not using their home mortgages as a practical financial tool. Many Americans believe that they are fixed to their original loan and miscalculate their ability to refinance their existing mortgage let alone add a new home equity loan for reducing debt or financing home improvements. The survey indicates that many of these Americans may consider their mortgage as lifelong debt, rather than a financial tool. Dan Hanson, managing director of Countrywide Home Loans stated that, "There's a prevalent misperception about mortgages that may prevent many Americans from realizing their home's full financial potential.”There will always be some homeowners who refuse to consider their home’s security as a financing tool for taking out home equity loans and credit lines. The study concluded that “6 out of 10 homeowners would consider tapping equity as a source of funds and 70% of those say they would use the money for home improvements.” "There is a sense that many people are pulling cash out of their homes to pay for luxury items, but our survey found the opposite to be true," sai If you grow your business faster than the golden mean, this is called excess in nature and it will cause a decline into deficiency later. If you paint a painting, build a building – or do a book cover and the proportions are in deficiency of the golden mean, you will cause the word “ugly” – a repelling force. That is why your hair cut and style can affect your beauty so much. It changes the proportions of your face. There is a sacred geometry that is also, like all the universe, humble to the ratio of the golden mean. (Pythagoras is one of my great teachers. This golden mean is his life study and the way he constructed and understood the entire universe, including sacred music) Your heart opens with the proportions of the golden mean. Some people automatically understand this and others are always “designing” things. The great artists and designers are actually mathematicians, they use their eye, rather than a calculator, but ratios, symmetries, proportions and the order of perfection are their measure. More profound is to see a family in a home playing this dynamic. If Dad over works, excess, one child will become lazy. If mum over works, another child will become lazy. Excess causes deficiency. If Dad is in the wrong job, one of the children will become devoted to a cause. If one parent is over attached to the cleanliness of the house, someone will go into deficiency on that topic, and just not care. One lover wants commitment, the other wants freedom. Then, if the lover who wants freedom suddenly wants commitment, the other partner will want to wait, or delay, to avoid commitment. If you are single and are at a party and are looking for love, lover, loving, you get rejection, refusal (deficiency) So the worrier in excess causes the peaceful one in deficiency. The aggressive one causes the passive on. Excess and deficiency explains all of life. Every step of it. Nothing escapes. The fool tries to fight to cause an excess to sustain itself, but apart from fashion and social trends which make money marketing temporary brand shifts, we are wiser to rise above excess and hold a greater purpose. There is no global warming that will not be followed by global cooling. Those people who are fighting a war against global warming are part of that compensation, they are as much a part of nature as those who are causing the warming. No one is an island. We are all part of a huge tide, ebb and flow. The one who lost trust thinks they are causing the tide. The one who has an open heart and can love, can see they are simply a part of something far bigger. This is called inspiration. When you sit on top of the mountain in Nepal, you see this. You see your little perspective on life back in the city, fixing, compensating, going into excess and going into deficiency. The chemicals of your body change too. Acidity is excess, and alkalinity is deficiency. And like the aggressive entrepreneur (acid) and the born again spiritual peacy peacy one (alkaline) instead of killing yourself with ill health by grasping one or the other, you can grasp both. This is called perspective. A bigger perspective. A person who can’t get perspective is a part of the problem. A leader who can’t get perspective and see the healthy excess and deficiency in their own company, they will be fighting to make more (excess) or reduce some problem (deficiency) when really there is an existing excess and an existing deficiency, they don’t need to do much at all, except see them both. In a relationship, I watch people make very bad judgments all the time. They say to their lover “you are in excess” like, you do this too much, or that too much. They also say to their lover “you are in deficiency” you don’t do enough of this, and don’t do enough of that. Now that person in the relationship is part of their relationship problem because they are in compensation with their partner. From this perspective they are both going to fail – meaning fall into mediocrity (which seems like the expectations of most people). There are two things you might like to observe in your day. The first is that the very thing you want to change in your lover is in fact the compensation for the very thing you like. Say you say to your lover, “you need to loose weight” now this means they are in deficiency of exercise and diet control. But when you are talking to a friend you say “oh my partner is so good to the kids, he comes straight home from work and plays with the children and we put them to bed” There is a deficiency in health control, and an excess in family dynamic. The dumb individual will think they can control the universe. The inspired individual will see that they are, as nature in a dynamic of excess and deficiency. The second thing you might want to observe with your lover, and people in your life, is that you are a compensation for them. Say you are with your lover and they are overweight because they are not exercising and not eating well at work. You need to look at your part in this dynamic and see if it is you that is in deficiency, balancing their excess. We are so quick to judge our partner for being lazy, when we are work aholic. We are so quick to judge our lovers lack of success when we finally get through our exams. Stupid people think that they can paint the world with a color that takes away the diversity of it. But if you are truly a student of the laws of nature you will know that the more one person is in excess (say success) the more someone, not always their lover (goes into deficiency). These are the forces of nature. If you hang out with the same friends for many years you might find, that every time you fall in love, or get successful, one of your friends gets jealous, or goes into deficiency and starts to want to sabotage your achievements. This is most common thing I have ever seen in relationships and business. When a lover holds onto old friends when they enter a new relationship, someone will want to destroy that new relationship, because it makes them feel deficient. In business too. Friends can become jealous of others who are succeeding, and start to give advice or even deliberately try to drain some of the success into their own pocket to rebalance their perceived deficiency. This is where the laws of nature are so critical in your life. You cannot empower people who are in deficiency around you. This is called many things but the most powerful thing to call it, is bloody sad. You can work your heart out to build some great love relationship, then, your girlfriend starts to talk about going out late at night, and even if she is married, maybe picking up blokes at the pub. She is actually i
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