mpensate in those areas they are more confident in. They are on a constant drive for accomplishment and external approval. They often try to belittle or down play their sexual expectations and have a tendency to resist acknowledging or expressing their emotions. The extroverted ones over project and exaggerate their sexual desirability. They try to assert themselves and their presence by doing everything in "larger than life" style. BI recently went to an exclusive singles party. I was there to do business, and I am not sure what my boyfriend was doing there, but it was wonderful to have him around - he works in Europe and is away for extended periods of time. It was a good party; the music was great, food excellent and the crowd "classy".

Just a little over an hour into the party, I noticed that everyone was gravitating towards one corner of the room. I could not immediately see what was happening from where we were sitting, so I got up to go take a look. Two women, one a white blonde and the other black were on the dance floor doing their thing and standing around were what looked like all the good looking men at the party, except mine of course, who was sitting in another corner animatedly talking and laughing - he's got me what can I say.

Anyways, these two women were obviously enjoying themselves and having the time of their lives. But what I found quite interesting was that both women were what society calls "plus size" and not exactly "plus size" model type either. They were two average looking women laughing and graciously flirting with the male moths light-struck in their glow. They were getting all the male attention from the men we would typically think wouldn't be attracted to women their size especially when there were many other petite good-looking women in the room.

What was their secret? Two words - SEXUAL MAGNETISM

Whether you know it or not the way you see yourself sexually affects every aspect of your life. It affects how you walk on the street, how you talk to your boss, how you respond to stress, how you relate to others and even how you pursue success.

People with poor sexual self-image tend to overcompensate in those areas they are more confident in. They are on a constant drive for accomplishment and external approval. They often try to belittle or down play their sexual expectations and have a tendency to resist acknowledging or expressing their emotions. The extroverted ones over project and exaggerate their sexual desirability. They try to assert themselves and their presence by doing everything in "larger than life" style. B

ld not immediately see what was happening from where we were sitting, so I got up to go take a look. Two women, one a white blonde and the other black were on the dance floor doing their thing and standing around were what looked like all the good looking men at the party, except mine of course, who was sitting in another corner animatedly talking and laughing - he's got me what can I say.

Anyways, these two women were obviously enjoying themselves and having the time of their lives. But what I found quite interesting was that both women were what society calls "plus size" and not exactly "plus size" model type either. They were two average looking women laughing and graciously flirting with the male moths light-struck in their glow. They were getting all the male attention from the men we would typically think wouldn't be attracted to women their size especially when there were many other petite good-looking women in the room.

What was their secret? Two words - SEXUAL MAGNETISM

Whether you know it or not the way you see yourself sexually affects every aspect of your life. It affects how you walk on the street, how you talk to your boss, how you respond to stress, how you relate to others and even how you pursue success.

People with poor sexual self-image tend to overcompensate in those areas they are more confident in. They are on a constant drive for accomplishment and external approval. They often try to belittle or down play their sexual expectations and have a tendency to resist acknowledging or expressing their emotions. The extroverted ones over project and exaggerate their sexual desirability. They try to assert themselves and their presence by doing everything in "larger than life" style. B

enjoying themselves and having the time of their lives. But what I found quite interesting was that both women were what society calls "plus size" and not exactly "plus size" model type either. They were two average looking women laughing and graciously flirting with the male moths light-struck in their glow. They were getting all the male attention from the men we would typically think wouldn't be attracted to women their size especially when there were many other petite good-looking women in the room.

What was their secret? Two words - SEXUAL MAGNETISM

Whether you know it or not the way you see yourself sexually affects every aspect of your life. It affects how you walk on the street, how you talk to your boss, how you respond to stress, how you relate to others and even how you pursue success.

People with poor sexual self-image tend to overcompensate in those areas they are more confident in. They are on a constant drive for accomplishment and external approval. They often try to belittle or down play their sexual expectations and have a tendency to resist acknowledging or expressing their emotions. The extroverted ones over project and exaggerate their sexual desirability. They try to assert themselves and their presence by doing everything in "larger than life" style. B

ially when there were many other petite good-looking women in the room.

What was their secret? Two words - SEXUAL MAGNETISM

Whether you know it or not the way you see yourself sexually affects every aspect of your life. It affects how you walk on the street, how you talk to your boss, how you respond to stress, how you relate to others and even how you pursue success.

People with poor sexual self-image tend to overcompensate in those areas they are more confident in. They are on a constant drive for accomplishment and external approval. They often try to belittle or down play their sexual expectations and have a tendency to resist acknowledging or expressing their emotions. The extroverted ones over project and exaggerate their sexual desirability. They try to assert themselves and their presence by doing everything in "larger than life" style. B

mpensate in those areas they are more confident in. They are on a constant drive for accomplishment and external approval. They often try to belittle or down play their sexual expectations and have a tendency to resist acknowledging or expressing their emotions. The extroverted ones over project and exaggerate their sexual desirability. They try to assert themselves and their presence by doing everything in "larger than life" style. But their "macho" or "sexy" self-image is the opposite of what is happening on the outside.

People blessed with enormous charm and sexual charisma on the other hand don't flaunt it with low necklines or ass-hugging jeans. They may not even have a charismatic personality and are not necessarily seducers but everywhere they go both men and women fall under the spell of their seductive aura. They attract the opposite sex like bees to honey. It is simply hard to resist getting a discreet glance and sometimes we don't even know why. These people don't seem to age and race has no bearing on the power of their magnetism. They kind of command attention, affection and respect without asking for it. They look like they are truly happy.

So what is this mystical thing we call sexual magnetism?

Sexual magnetism is often confused with "sexy' or the "exotic" - whatever these words mean - and because of that many think it is something you do, something you buy with money, something a sexual partner gives you or even something you get from travel to some 'exotic" part of the world.

Sexual magnetism is not about a perfect body, bigger boobs or bigger male organ. If you do not believe me, tell someone who thinks they have big boobs or big organ that you do not think it is that big anyway and watch their self-image take a downward dive. Not to mention that there are some men and women who are less-endowed in the looks department but ooze sexual magnetism.

Sexual magnetism is not about what you wear or the kind of car you drive. Wearing a secret little number underneath your clothes or driving a sleek car can help boost your sexual confidence but only when you already have it. Take away the lingerie (eventually